Today women who stay at home and take care of the Family
Home are ridiculed called Slaves to their husbands or are not fulfilled in
their life. This attitude annoys me a great deal for besmirching all those
women who want to stay at home and look after the family especially the
children. Now to do this is not always possible as with Valerie and myself when
we first married and had children she had to work so we could survive but as
soon as we were financial stable I got her to pack it up. The idea of a women
having a child and then returning to work within months is deplorable
especially if it is just for her selfish satisfaction, do they not realise
their children need their mother or they just an object they have because their
friends have one.
A good Husband and Wife team should be a true partnership, a
team who have made the deliberate action of forming a legal and spiritual bond
not just a couple who have shacked up with each other and refer to each other
as “My Partner” as if this is some honourable relationship. My strong
attributes are my business accruements and Valerie’s is her organisational
ability in running the household, sometime the two combine, Valerie has been a
great help in building my business yet her most important contribution has been
taking the strain away from me with the household and bringing up the kids.
Take tonight every Wednesday she has John round with his two boys, Susan with
her two plus her and me for dinner. Yesterday I told her I had a business
colleague coming round for Dinner as well, and at 1pm Donna telephone to say
she was ill and could Connie come round after school. There was no histrionics
just OK and when she gives a meal it is a proper cooked meal. Now I couldn’t or
wouldn’t do that but what it proved is her ability to adapt to change quickly
how many husbands can do that?
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